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        • communicatie

          In an online meeting, sound comes before video

          People forgive a blurry picture faster than bad sound. Here is how you sort out your online setup, with a backup in case something does fail.

          An online meeting that starts with 'wait, I cannot hear you', you have probably experienced that. And then someone says their camera is not working. Perhaps you have even said it yourself. The meeting then starts with five minutes of technology, while everyone sits looking at a little black box.

          In a training session on digital and hybrid meetings, we went over what your setup needs together. I also honestly said there that I no longer consider 'my camera is not working' an excuse. That sounds strict, and it is a bit. Because almost everything that goes wrong, you can check in advance.

          Nov 10, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • vibe coding

          Let your agent write the manual before you deploy

          What you build with AI must be readable by someone else later, human or agent. Ask your agent to write the documentation before you put something live.

          You have built a little tool with your agent and it works. Your colleagues want to use it too. And then comes the question nobody likes to hear: how do I install that? You still roughly know it yourself, because you were there. But in three months you might not know it anymore either. And whoever continues working on it after you, certainly will not know.

          In a vibe coding training I talked about an organisation with old software. They wanted to work with it more easily using AI, and I built a few tools for them. Building was actually only half the work. Other people had to be able to read how those tools work later on. And by extension their agents too. So everything had to be documented.

          Nov 10, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • toolkit

          Swipe file, prompts for Copilot in Word, Excel and Outlook

          Prompts to paste into Copilot next to your open document in Word, Excel or Outlook, so it does the work in your file and you no longer have to copy and paste.

          You have Copilot open in Word, in Excel or next to an email in Outlook. The document is there, the chat is next to it, and the cursor is blinking. And then you do not really know what to ask. So you ask something you would also ask in the standalone chat. And you get another text that you have to copy and paste yourself.

          This swipe file gives you short prompts that you paste into Copilot while your file is open. They are written for the moment when Copilot is allowed to work in your document itself. You choose one, you fill in what is in brackets, and you see what it does. Take fifteen minutes for it, with a document you had to edit anyway.

          Nov 10, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • faciliteren

          Start on time, even if not everyone is there

          A meeting that waits for latecomers costs the time of those already sitting there. This is how you respect the clock, from the first to the last fifteen minutes.

          You are ready for a ten o'clock meeting. At five past ten, someone is still missing. So everyone waits. People chat a bit and check an email. And at quarter past, it finally starts. You probably recognise this, and perhaps you even find it normal. I think almost everyone experiences it like this.

          In a training course on meetings, I started punctually at the agreed time. Even if not everyone had been there, I would have started. I asked the group why I find that so important. The answer came immediately: otherwise all the others are just sitting around waiting. And that is a waste of time.

          Nov 9, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • vibe coding

          You do not need to know everything in advance to build

          Writing everything out in advance or building in short loops? Both are possible, but those who only see the result at the end often get a kitchen they did not want.

          Perhaps you have already read that with vibe coding you have to write everything out first. A complete specification, right down to the last screen. Only then is your agent allowed to start. And perhaps you are sitting in front of an empty document, with the feeling that you do not know all of that yet. That is not a sign that you are not ready for it. A creative process simply does not work like that for everyone.

          In a vibe coding training course we talked about two ways of working. One is called spec coding, from specification. The other works in loops, with progressive insight. And I honestly told the group that one is not better than the other. They suit a different kind of person.

          Nov 9, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • Microsoft Copilot

          Make Copilot work in the app where your document is

          In the standalone chat, Copilot mostly gives you text back. Open it in Word, Excel or Outlook, and it does the work itself right there in your document.

          You ask Copilot in the chat to update your report. You get a neat text back. And then you have to paste it into your document yourself, piece by piece. You might wonder what that AI assistant is actually for, if you are still doing the cutting and pasting.

          That question also came up in a Copilot workshop. The Copilot chat can normally do very little with your files. It does not put documents in folders and it does not change anything in your Word. But if you open Copilot in the app itself, that changes. There it just does what you need it to do.

          Nov 9, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • toolkit

          Prompt pack, the tidy-up for your AI's memory

          Four prompts to tidy up your AI's memory: first testing what it still believes, then proposing, deciding and keeping the map small. You decide what can go.

          Your AI has been given a memory, and for the first few weeks that was a relief. Meanwhile, it is full of all sorts of things. Logs of tasks, appointments that changed a long time ago, and the same note in three versions. Your AI reads all of that with equal conviction. It does not know which line is from last year. With these four prompts, you tidy up that memory in fifteen minutes. Your AI does the reading and proposes, and you decide what stays. It works with a folder of notes, a vault in Obsidian or a project in Claude or ChatGPT with files.

          Nov 9, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • toolkit

          Shareable card, which thinking level for which task

          One card to hang next to your screen: four settings for your AI's thinking level, two questions to set the dial and two prompts for your own rule of thumb.

          You probably have a button in your AI tool for how deeply it thinks. In Claude it is called thinking level or effort. In Copilot you choose between Auto, Quick response and Think deeper. And if you are like most people in my workshops, that button sits untouched on the default setting. Or it is set to the highest just to be sure. An email to your accountant on the highest level is actually a bit like a full inspection at your garage. And that because your windscreen wiper squeaks. That is very thorough, only you are waiting half a day for it.

          Nov 8, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • automatisering

          Let AI prepare the work and an ordinary workflow send it

          You do not have to choose between an agent and a workflow. Let the agent create what is different every time, and a fixed workflow do what is always the same.

          In a training course on automation, we ran a workflow at a fixed time. A participant asked me if that could also just be done with Claude or ChatGPT. And they suspected that you would use a lot more tokens then. Perhaps you have the same doubt, now that you hear everywhere that agents can do everything. Then building an ordinary workflow seems a bit old-fashioned.

          The suspicion was correct. And I would add something else to it: you do not actually have to choose. The setups that run well in practice use both, each for the part they are good at.

          Nov 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • AI-geheugen

          Your AI's memory needs a clear-out too

          Let your agents keep track of what they do, and their memory grows faster than you think. A regular clear-out keeps it small, a bit like dreaming.

          You have given your AI a memory. That could be a folder with notes or a file with what it needs to know about you. Perhaps it is even a fully fledged second brain in Obsidian. For the first few weeks, that works very well. You have to explain less and your agent knows where to look. And then one day you notice that it is slower at finding its way. Or that it brings up something that has not been correct for a long time.

          In a vibe coding training course, I showed how my own agents work with such a memory. And I had to honestly admit that I ran into this myself. At a certain point, my vault started to become very complex indeed.

          Nov 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • toolkit

          Worksheet, your monthly review with your AI

          A fifteen-minute worksheet for your review with your AI: first your own guess, then its answer, one choice, and two prompts to close the loop.

          You have been working with your AI for a while, and it knows a fair bit of your work by now. In the article you read how to let it look back at what you did together. That answer sometimes hits hard. And then the temptation is great to read it, nod briefly and get on with your day. This worksheet helps you to do something with it. You need fifteen minutes for it, once a month or once a quarter. You end up with one thing you pick up and a note for your next review.

          Three questions before you ask your AI anything

          First take a piece of paper yourself. Write down a few words for each question, even before you paste the prompt from the article.

          Nov 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • vibe coding

          Are you stuck? Talk it out first, even to a rubber duck

          If your building project with AI gets stuck, pushing on a bit longer rarely helps. Stop in time, and talk your problem out loud, to a rubber duck, a colleague or your agent.

          It is late, your app still does not do what you want, and you think: just one more prompt. Then another one. You might recognise this, if you have ever built something with AI. And the next morning you open your project and think: oh dear, what has happened here?

          In a vibe coding training I talked about this with the participants, alongside the good practices I try to follow myself. Two of them seem to have nothing to do with technology at first glance. Yet they help you out of a knot more often than a better prompt.

          Nov 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • automatisering

          Who decides at each fork in your workflow?

          Every workflow has points where it must choose which way to go. Here is how you determine for each fork whether a rule, an agent or you yourself decide.

          You want to automate a piece of your work and you draw out the steps. Mail comes in, something reads that mail, and then something has to happen. Only, a choice has to be made at that moment too. Is this a real question or is it spam? Is this document an invoice or a contract? In a training course on automation, a participant asked me whether such a workflow is AI or not. A good question, because you probably also feel yourself that it has to be one or the other.

          The answer is actually: both, and different for each fork. And the better you see those forks, the easier your workflow becomes to build.

          Nov 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • slim werken met AI

          Your AI does not always need to think deeper

          Alongside your model is a second button: how deeply your AI thinks. Higher is not always better. Here is how you choose the right thinking level for each task.

          Alongside the choice of your model, many AI tools have a second button. In one tool it is called 'think deeper', in another 'effort' or 'reasoning'. And perhaps you have had it on the highest setting for a while, because thinking more just sounds better. In a webinar about Claude, a question about this came up in the chat. Someone wrote that the combination of model and effort was never really clear.

          I do understand that confusion. You have two buttons that both seem to have something to do with smartness. And no one explains what the second one does exactly. So you just set them both to the maximum, just to be sure.

          Nov 4, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • AI-agents

          Clicking approve is not control

          If your agent asks for permission at every step, you will eventually click approve blindly. This is how you put control where it actually makes a difference.

          You might know the feeling. You give your agent a task and it gets to work. And then it starts: may I read this file, may I run this command, may I edit this folder? The first few times you read every question carefully. After half an hour you just click through.

          In a training course on automation I mentioned that I know plenty of people who go about their whole day like this. Laptop open, and then bam, bam, bam, clicking approve. And honestly, I understand that. But then you have a strange situation. The button that is supposed to protect you is the button you press the fastest.

          Nov 4, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • toolkit

          Swipe file, phrases to open and close your meeting

          Phrases you can say word for word to open a meeting, explore together, work with resistance and close. Plus a prompt for your notes.

          You know you have to open first before you decide. And then you sit there, everyone looks at you, and the first sentence you say is your own solution anyway. That happens to experienced facilitators too, you know. Under pressure, your brain reaches for what it already knows. So it helps to have a few phrases ready for every moment of your meeting.

          This swipe file gives you those phrases. They follow Sam Kaner's diamond of participation from the article: opening, exploring, narrowing down and closing. You can read through them in five minutes before your next meeting. And you just choose a few that suit you.

          Nov 4, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • AI-tools

          Why your AI refuses in one app and not in another

          The same question, the same model, and yet a different answer? Then the app is deciding too. Here is how you read a refusal and know what to do with it.

          You ask your AI something very ordinary and you get a polite refusal. You try the same thing in another tool, with the same model underneath, and there it works. That actually feels a bit random. In a vibe coding training, a participant ran into this too. She literally said: 'It is really strange. How is that possible?'

          The answer is not in your prompt and not in the model either. It is in the app around it. And once you see that, you will read a refusal very differently. You then know where to look. And you also know when it is better to just stop trying.

          Nov 4, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:37

          All your instruction files count

          Is there an AGENTS.md in your home folder and in your project, and you do not know which one counts? They both count. This is how you organise them without contradictions.

          Nov 3, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:41

          Checklist, cleaning up your agent's instructions

          A checklist to clean up your agent's instruction file in fifteen minutes, with the signs that it is getting too big and two prompts for a fresh session.

          Nov 3, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • 3:23

          Ask your AI what you are missing

          Have you been working with your AI for months? Let it look back at what you did together. The answer can be confronting, and that is exactly why it is useful.

          Nov 3, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:27

          Building it yourself means maintaining it yourself

          Your AI can easily build you a custom CRM. But if you build it, you maintain it. Here is how you decide what to build yourself and where to let an existing tool do the work.

          Nov 3, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:35

          Open first, then decide

          Do you want to get to the conclusion as quickly as possible in a meeting, and is that exactly where it gets stuck? The participation diamond shows why opening first is faster.

          Nov 2, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:23

          Prompt pack, your agent as orchestrator

          Five prompts to let your agent divide the work: breaking down your plan, defining roles and handovers, asking for the status, adjusting and learning afterwards.

          Nov 2, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:42

          Ask what kind of meeting it is first

          Do you never quite know what is expected of you when you get an invitation? One question about the kind of meeting tells you how to prepare.

          Nov 2, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:41

          Clean up your agent's instructions now and then

          Your instruction file grows with every project, and your agent loses track. Let it check for itself now and then what is duplicated, redundant or contradictory.

          Nov 1, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • 3:43

          A new role is growing between your team and IT

          You know your work, IT knows the systems, and together you often talk past each other. A new role is growing in between: someone in your team who builds with AI, within the framework of IT.

          Nov 1, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:06

          Resistance in your meeting has more than one face

          Is someone being difficult in your meeting? First look at what resistance you are facing: not understanding, not wanting to, or not trusting. Each requires a different response.

          Nov 1, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:04

          Worksheet, what your own morning newsletter needs to know

          A ten-minute worksheet for your own newsletter in n8n: your topic, your sources, what counts as important, and a completed instruction for your agent.

          Nov 1, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:57

          Your app works on your laptop, what next?

          Deploying and publishing are not the same. Here is how you choose between a web app on a server and a real app in the store, and how you test it on your own device first.

          Oct 31, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:04

          Let one agent distribute the work

          Does your chat with your agent go on endlessly during a larger project? Turn it into an orchestrator that distributes the work across other agents, while you keep talking to it.

          Oct 31, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:56

          Let your agent set up your server

          Your app is ready, but setting up a server feels like a separate profession. Give your agent access to your own server and let it propose and arrange the technical side.

          Oct 31, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:15

          Step-by-step plan, your own content machine with one prompt

          Five steps and one central prompt to turn what you already do into a small content machine that writes in your voice. And you remain the one who publishes.

          Oct 31, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:58

          Build your own newsletter that is ready every morning

          Too many newsletters and still not keeping up? A workflow with a timer searches for news about your field every morning and emails you the three most important stories.

          Oct 30, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:59

          Your chatbot gets smarter from a narrower document

          Is your chatbot answering vaguely or missing the point? Give it a narrow knowledge document, separate instructions and tell it explicitly where to look.

          Oct 30, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:51

          Let the agent that knows your business build your workflow

          The assistant in your automation tool knows nothing about your work. Connect the agent on your computer to n8n and let it build, with up-to-date documentation included.

          Oct 30, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:53

          Template, an agenda item where everyone gets to speak

          A script to fill in for one agenda item in 1-2-4-All, with the sentences you can say word for word and a time schedule. Ready in ten minutes.

          Oct 30, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:05

          If your agent is stuck in a loop, send in a second one

          Is your agent trying to fix the same thing for the tenth time? Open a new session, point them to the stuck session and ask for the root cause.

          Oct 29, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:51

          Let every brainstorm with your AI end in a briefing

          Many good ideas die in a chat. Brainstorm out loud with your AI, in the car or on a walk, and always ask for documents at the end.

          Oct 29, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:29

          Prompt pack, a report that leads to action

          Five prompts to close your meeting with agreements that happen: checking your report, getting actions confirmed and opening the next meeting.

          Oct 29, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:51

          Test your app outside the golden path too

          Testing your own app feels thorough, but you often just follow the ideal path. Let your agent, and ideally a second AI, look for the edge cases.

          Oct 29, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:59

          Are you an expert, coach or facilitator in this meeting?

          Do you lead a meeting and do most of the talking yourself? Here is how you choose your role for each moment: expert, coach or facilitator, depending on what the group already knows.

          Oct 28, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:40

          Prepare your meeting like you prepare a game

          Do people in your meetings always seem completely lost? With the rules, the referee and the scoreboard of a game, everyone knows where they stand.

          Oct 28, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:34

          Let everyone think alone first, then together

          Do the same three people always talk in your meetings? By going alone first, then in pairs and then in small groups, everyone gets a turn.

          Oct 28, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:49

          Worksheet, which box does your AI idea fall into

          A ten-minute worksheet that runs your own AI idea through the four boxes of the AI Act: four questions, what you arrange per box and a prompt that interviews you.

          Oct 28, 2026 · 7 min readRead
        • 3:40

          A meeting request is actually a question

          Are you going from meeting to meeting and not getting to your real work? With a small filter, you decide for yourself where your contribution counts.

          Oct 27, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:06

          Every to-do opens a loop in your head

          Do you have to say you had no time again in the next meeting? This is how you see the open loops in your head, and close them one by one.

          Oct 27, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:15

          Swipe file, ten questions for your notebook

          Ten questions to copy for your notebook in Copilot or Gemini, for a client conversation, your own organisation, a job interview and checking the answers.

          Oct 27, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:18

          What goes into a good meeting report

          Do you get a long report after every meeting that nobody reads? With five fixed parts, everyone knows what was decided and who is doing what.

          Oct 27, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:56

          A shared chat is not a private message

          Worried that your AI is leaking your data? Often the leak is in the share button. Here is how you check what you have shared in the past and what your AI is allowed to do with your conversations.

          Oct 26, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • 4:49

          Am I allowed to do this with AI? The AI Act as a quick check

          Are you doubting whether you are allowed to do something with AI? The four risk levels of the European AI Act help you to categorise your own use case in a few minutes.

          Oct 26, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:20

          Template, the mandate for your server agent

          A mandate to fill in that says what your agent is allowed to solve on your server by itself, when, and what it always leaves to you. Ready in fifteen minutes.

          Oct 26, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:03

          Lock down AI and you get shadow AI

          Are you barely allowed to use AI at work? Then people will find their own way, and that usually involves their private chatbot. Here is how you prevent that.

          Oct 26, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:59

          Checklist, ready to switch AI tools tomorrow

          A short checklist to see where you are tied to a single AI provider, with the prompt that makes your instructions and your context portable.

          Oct 25, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • 3:33

          Give your AI one file with your brand style

          Let your AI make slides or a website and everything looks like what everyone else makes. With one file containing your brand style, it looks like yours again.

          Oct 25, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:59

          Nothing is too crazy to imagine

          Lots of ideas and no idea where to start? A small project for yourself, without a boss or a deadline, is in my opinion the most fun place to learn how to build with agents.

          Oct 25, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:14

          Create a notebook if you just want to know something

          Do you need to build an agent for a stack of documents? If you mainly want to extract insights from them, a notebook in Copilot or Gemini actually works better.

          Oct 25, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:28

          Start with the boring chore

          Anyone who wants to automate usually thinks of the biggest process right away. I would start with the small tasks you do the same way every time.

          Oct 24, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:47

          Let your AI discover how you write

          You often do not really know how you sound yourself. Your AI can extract it from your own emails, and then it will write a bit more like you from now on.

          Oct 24, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:42

          Prompt package, from design to screen in six prompts

          Six prompts to copy that take you from a briefing to a built screen that really looks like your design, with a description that you read through yourself first.

          Oct 24, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:42

          What is your agent allowed to fix on your server?

          An agent that patches your server itself needs a mandate. This is how you decide which sources it believes, what it is allowed to do itself and what it leaves to you.

          Oct 24, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:14

          Tell your agent when it is finished

          An agent keeps working until it is done, if you tell it what done means. This is how I describe in advance what a good result looks like, as a checklist.

          Oct 24, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:15

          How to help build a stronger internet together

          Did you put something online yourself after a workshop? After a week full of security leaks, you can read here how an agent guards your server for you, including the prompt.

          Oct 24, 2026 · 8 min readRead
        • 4:07

          You do not have to write out your skill yourself

          Building a skill sounds like a lot of writing. Today I leave that to my AI. Four ways to let your AI create a skill, including by demonstrating it.

          Oct 23, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:50

          Not every workflow is a chain

          Before I build a skill or an agent, I look at the shape of my work. A chain, a branch, a nest or a diamond, and what that changes.

          Oct 23, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:22

          Step-by-step guide, your first email agent in six steps

          Six steps with ready-to-use prompts to build an agent that goes through your emails every morning and tells you what needs your attention today. Ready in half an hour.

          Oct 23, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:11

          Why I do not tie myself to a single AI provider

          The big AI companies are bringing you in cheaply right now. I prefer to spread my work across multiple tools, and I explain why and how you can do that yourself.

          Oct 23, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:04

          Do not just download a skill from the internet

          A skill is a folder, and it can contain more than just text. This is how I let my agent look at an interesting skill first and make its own version of it.

          Oct 22, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:43

          Let your agent tell you what it sees first

          An agent that has to build a design often turns it into something else. I let it describe the design first, and only build it afterwards.

          Oct 22, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:42

          Template, onboarding your AI in six messages

          Six fill-in-the-blank messages that tell your AI who you are and how you work, plus the question to check what sticks afterwards. Done in fifteen minutes.

          Oct 22, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:02

          How to get IT on board when you start building yourself

          Anyone building tools themselves with AI will sooner or later run into IT. Why that resistance is there, and why a small, concrete request works much better.

          Oct 22, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:49

          AI feels free, but the bill is coming

          AI feels almost free today, because someone else is paying the bill. I would already work as if you are paying the real price.

          Oct 21, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:12

          Your first agent only sees your mailbox

          An agent that checks your emails every morning is an ideal first agent. This is how you write the instruction and how you give it only what it needs.

          Oct 21, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:00

          Ask your AI how sure it is first

          If you translate into a lesser-known language or about something sensitive, I would ask your AI how sure it is first, and then translate it back with a second AI.

          Oct 21, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:01

          Worksheet, which documents can go into which AI

          A fifteen-minute worksheet that divides your documents into three buckets: leave as is, business or European, and local. With the prompt that helps you sort.

          Oct 21, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • meer omzet

          The enquiry that got left behind

          No enquiry gets left behind and no follow-up gets forgotten. How AI helps you reply quickly and follow up on time, without it feeling cold to your clients.

          You spent a whole day with a client. In the evening you look in your inbox and see an enquiry that came in early this morning. You reply immediately, but you already know. Anyone who asks a question in the morning and only gets a reply after dinner has already emailed another provider in the meantime.

          I think that has little to do with carelessness. An enquiry that gets left behind is rarely a bad enquiry. Usually your day was just too full. And the fuller your days get, the more often this happens, and the less time you have to notice it.

          Oct 20, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • tijd terug

          The email mountain on Monday morning

          The manual work that returns every week does not have to stay with you. What AI can take over from your emails, reports and quotes, and how you start small.

          You are sitting at the kitchen table on Sunday evening with your laptop open, when you actually wanted to be on the sofa already. Quotes still need to go out. Three clients are waiting for last week's report. And in your inbox are requests that you have to answer all just a little differently. That is usually not difficult work. It does return every week, and it costs you exactly the hours you wanted to give to your clients.

          You might recognise this. I see it with many freelancers I meet. They are good at their profession, and yet they are stuck in the evening with the manual work around it. You are probably already wondering if that can ever be different.

          Oct 20, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:31

          Share card, the babysitting loop for vibe coding

          One card to hang next to your screen or share with your team, plus six sentences to adjust your AI in plain language while it builds for you.

          Oct 20, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • 4:16

          Give your AI an onboarding, just like a new colleague

          A new colleague gets an onboarding, your AI usually does not. I use six questions from my coaching practice to teach my assistant how I work.

          Oct 20, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:01

          Read the deviation, not the gesture

          Crossed arms or looking away say little on their own. I first look at how someone usually is, and then I pay attention to what deviates from that.

          Oct 20, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • een voorsprong

          More personal than your competitor

          Your advantage lies in working more personally. AI helps you work faster and more tailored to your client, with your own voice included.

          After a training session, all participants usually get the same email. Thank you for attending, here are the slides, see you next time. That is polite and everyone does it that way. It is almost funny: the more polite and general the email, the faster you forget it.

          Think about an email that is different for every participant. One that refers to what that person actually said during the day. And one that asks what they can move forward with now. In terms of content, that is a small step. In the past, you simply could not take that step, because you did not have the time for it.

          Oct 20, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:17

          Two sides of yourself, one in each hand

          You rarely solve an inner conflict by choosing. With the Visual Squash you look for what both sides of yourself want, and that is often the same thing.

          Oct 20, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • lagere kosten

          What are you still paying for every month?

          Many small costs keep running because no one looks at them. Which tasks you can take into your own hands with AI, and how you start small without stacking subscriptions.

          At the end of the month, you sit with your bank statements. There is a subscription, an invoice from the freelancer and the virtual assistant. Next to that, you see the little tool that types out your conversations and another tool to schedule your social media. Each amount on its own is not too bad. Together they form a row you would rather not look at for too long.

          Ask yourself what you are actually paying for. Sometimes it is a profession that someone else can do better. Sometimes you just never got around to it yourself. You probably recognise this, and perhaps you are already wondering which of those expenses belong to the second kind.

          Oct 20, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:16

          Checklist, building safely with AI before your app goes online

          A short checklist for those building apps with AI, including the security paragraph for your brief and the prompt to have a second agent attack your app.

          Oct 19, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:51

          No connector for your tool? Let your AI build one

          If your tool is not in the list of connectors, your AI can often build one itself. This is how I tackle that safely.

          Oct 19, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:18

          Your private AI subscription is not a company vault

          An expensive personal AI subscription does not give you business agreements about your data. I explain the difference, and what I keep local myself.

          Oct 19, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:36

          Let your AI think in English, even if you work in Dutch

          Dutch costs your AI more working memory than English. So I let my AI work in English, and one sentence in your instruction is enough for that.

          Oct 19, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:52

          Complex is not the same as complicated

          You repair a car by looking for the cause, but not a team. I explain why that difference matters and where we often go wrong.

          Oct 18, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:40

          Swipe file, ten sentences so your AI does not lose the thread

          Ten sentences to copy for the start, the middle and the end of a long AI task, so you work with a handover.

          Oct 18, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • 3:40

          Why your SMART goal remains a wish

          A SMART goal sounds solid, and yet often nothing comes of it. What is missing when a goal only comes from your head, and how I make it SMARTER.

          Oct 18, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:41

          We think in lists, not in connections

          Deleting one line in Excel cost an organisation its collaboration. Why lists hide what is going on, and how you learn to draw arrows.

          Oct 18, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:41

          Babysit your AI, even if it can do it itself

          You can give an agent a goal and let it go, or watch along step by step. I teach the second in my workshops, and I explain why.

          Oct 17, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:49

          Give your AI a small brain, not a library

          Anyone who puts all their documents into a knowledge base for AI will see their assistant drown in it. A short index that points the way actually works much better.

          Oct 17, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:42

          Fewer agents, more skills

          I used to build a separate agent for every task, until I no longer knew who did what. Now I work with a few agents that share skills.

          Oct 17, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:30

          Prompt pack, six metaprompts that ask you questions first

          Six prompts to copy that make your AI ask the right questions first, for an email, a plan, a doubt, a difficult conversation or your own assistant.

          Oct 17, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:46

          Git is just pressing save

          Anyone building with AI will sooner or later be asked if they can commit. I explain what Git, a repo and GitHub are, without jargon.

          Oct 16, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:19

          Model, app, environment: know which layer you are in

          ChatGPT, Claude, VS Code, Cursor, Craft Agents: those who start out often lump them all together. I work with three layers, and they help you choose.

          Oct 16, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:44

          Brief your AI with TOUCH instead of a superprompt

          I now brief my AI with five letters: task, outcome, unknowns, context and handover, because today's models guess the rest themselves.

          Oct 15, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:43

          Your feeling is there first, your mind comes afterwards

          Our feeling is already there before we start thinking. I explain how that works, and why emotional awareness actually begins in your body.

          Oct 15, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:35

          Ask your AI for lessons, not excuses

          When my AI made a mistake, it started defending itself. I asked it for a lesson, and that is now in its memory.

          Oct 15, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:32

          Use their words, not yours

          If you repeat someone's words in your own words, the connection breaks for a moment. Why I reflect things literally, even in an age of chatbots.

          Oct 14, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • instructies

          Give your AI a few custom shortcuts

          Two colons and a short word, and your AI knows what you mean. This is how I put custom commands in my custom instructions, for things I ask every week.

          In a workshop this week I showed my custom instructions on the screen. It says that I do not want to see any emojis. And not too many bullet points, and normal capital letters. And below that is a list of lines that start with two colons. Those are the rules I use most often, and they are barely a word long.

          Feel free to copy the prompt at the bottom of this article, and you can write your first shortcut together with your AI.

          What you type again every week

          Take a look at your own chat history. Chances are you formulate the same questions over and over again. Translate this to Dutch. Write a short bio about me. Make this text a bit looser. Every time you type a sentence, sometimes two. And every time it is slightly different, so the result is too.

          Oct 14, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:28

          Create your skill at the end of the chat

          Not every task needs a skill. I would create one for work you do often, and only at the end of a good chat.

          Oct 14, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:40

          One agent for everything is like one employee for everything

          One assistant who knows everything and is allowed to do everything loses the overview. That is why I work with smaller agents, each with its own defined context.

          Oct 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:45

          Take your AI out of the browser

          An AI on your own computer can read, organise and edit files. I explain what that changes, and how you start safely.

          Oct 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:35

          The most important file in your AI project is not code

          Anyone who builds with an AI agent explains where everything is over and over again. One Markdown file solves that, and I tell you what belongs in it.

          Oct 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:32

          Learn to see through AI, not memorise the buttons

          Your workflow works today and might break next month after an update. That is why understanding how AI works pays off more than memorising buttons.

          Oct 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:04

          Security belongs in your briefing, not at the end

          Building an app with AI is fast. If you want it to be secure too, you put security in your briefing and let a second agent attack your work.

          Oct 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:49

          Before you build an agent, you draw the process

          Can AI handle the reservations for a B&B? I always start with a drawing of the process, because that is really what determines whether an agent works.

          Oct 6, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:59

          What Copilot can and cannot see

          Sometimes Copilot seems to know everything, and sometimes it cannot find a document that is right there. I explain how its index works and what you can do about it.

          Oct 6, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:09

          AI is not Google: you are the answer machine

          Those who use AI as a search engine get confident nonsense and think less for themselves. Those who use AI as a thinking partner become sharper. The difference lies in the direction.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:14

          The critic in your group is your best creative asset

          Good ideas often die in the second after they are born. Why real creativity needs the critic, and why you should make something tangible as quickly as possible.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:04

          Three types of agents, and why the middle one does the work

          Knowledge agents, work agents and autonomous agents. Why the autonomous dream often derails today, and where the real gain is for those starting now.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:26

          First your backlog, then your delegation list, then something new

          Anyone who works well with agents goes through three phases. The first two are about efficiency. The third is about work you could never have done before.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:03

          Memory or instruction? Facts and behaviour belong apart

          Why your AI keeps forgetting your tone of voice. Put your facts, your rules of behaviour and the knowledge per client each in their own place, and it will work faster.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:44

          The document that gives your AI a different instruction

          As soon as your AI reads files and emails, a hidden sentence can give it a different instruction. What prompt injection is and which rule you add today.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:31

          Choose the smallest model that can handle the work

          The smartest model is not always the best. If you choose consciously per task, you gain control, time and space in your subscription.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • metaprompt

          Let AI ask you questions first

          You do not write the best prompt alone. With one sentence at the end, you let AI question you first, and you become sharper in your thinking.

          People often ask me about the perfect prompt: which template, which order, which magic words. You might have wondered about that too. My answer surprises most participants, because I do not write my best prompts alone. I let AI question me first.

          Copy the prompt at the bottom of this article. Further down is also the prompt package with six metaprompts that question you first, free for Members.

          One sentence at the end of your prompt

          The technique is called the metaprompt, and it is actually almost embarrassingly simple. You describe what you want to achieve and what a good result looks like. Then you add one sentence: 'Ask me three to five questions first before you start.'

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:57

          Markdown is the native language of AI

          Why a PDF burdens your AI more than the same text in Markdown, and two small habits that immediately improve your output and your instructions.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:56

          Human in the loop or human on the loop?

          With every automation you choose how much oversight you keep: approving every step, or watching along with your hand on the brake. This is how you choose what suits your process.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:45

          Edit your question instead of chatting on

          If the answer is wrong, correcting it in a new message is the natural reflex. Editing your first question often works better, and your AI stays sharper.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 4:06

          Write a handover instead of compressing

          A summary of a summary loses something every time. With a handover document and a phased plan, your AI will not lose the thread.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • 3:46

          Skills or flows: when plain language is the wrong format

          Describing a work process in plain language for an agent is flexible, but not always smart. When you are better off building a fixed workflow, and how you spot the difference.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 4:12

          Tell your agent what not to do as well

          An agent does what it can, unless you provide a framework. Why boundaries in your instructions are just as important as the task itself.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • 3:40

          Vibe coding does not start with the code

          If you start building with AI straight away, you often get stuck. With a short discovery phase and a few early choices, you save days of work later.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • contextvenster

          Why your longest chat is your worst chat

          A long chat does not train your AI, it fills the context window. Why the quality drops halfway through, and the habit that solves it.

          Perhaps you have been working in the same chat for weeks. In almost every workshop someone tells me that, and usually with some pride: 'That is how it gets to know me.' I understand that thought, because it feels like a colleague who knows better and better how you work. Only it is not true, and precisely because of that the answer gets worse instead of better after a while. That is a bit ironic, because you are doing it exactly to make it better.

          Copy the prompt at the bottom of this article to neatly wrap up a long chat and start fresh.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 6 min readRead
        • Six Thinking Hats

          Six coloured cards and no advice

          A simple peer coaching exercise using the colours of the Six Thinking Hats. You just hold up a card and learn to listen in the meantime.

          Perhaps you want to help a colleague with a difficult decision and you quickly offer solutions. We all do that. There is one exercise from my creativity workshop that participants almost always take home with them. You need six coloured cards for it and one strict rule: you must not give advice.

          Copy the prompt at the bottom of this article if you have no one to practise with, and let your AI hold up the cards.

          How the exercise works

          You work in a duo or a trio. One person talks about an idea or a challenge they are working on. That must be something real, not a fictional case. The other listens, with six coloured cards in their hand.

          Oct 5, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • EPIC Method

          The EPIC Method: from AI strategy to daily practice

          Four habits that turn an AI strategy into daily practice, for individuals, teams and entire organisations.

          You have an AI strategy, or your team has met about it at least a few times. And yet not much is changing in your working week. You probably recognise this. EPIC helps you turn that strategy into daily practice, for yourself, for your team or for your entire organisation.

          Copy the prompt at the bottom of this article and apply the four habits to one task straight away.

          Why strategy alone is not enough

          Most AI adoption processes fail for the same reason as most change processes. They focus on the tools and forget the people. That is a bit ironic, because the tools are there precisely for those people. EPIC starts somewhere else: with the work you are already doing. That way you do not have to start a separate project. It is about four habits: Everyday tasks, Pair learning, Iterative feedback and Continuous improvement.

          Oct 4, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • Cognitive Agility Framework

          The Cognitive Agility Framework: five human capabilities

          Five human capabilities that AI cannot take over, and a prompt to help you discover which ones you already use in your work.

          You know those workdays when nothing goes as planned. The situation is messy, the direction changes, and nobody knows exactly what is expected of you now. That is when you need cognitive agility. It is the human ability to adjust your thinking and your emotional and social approach. This is how you find your way in unpredictable situations. It is a meta-capability that consists of five capabilities.

          Copy the prompt at the bottom of this article to see with your AI which of those five capabilities you already use.

          Five capabilities, one meta-capability

          Oct 4, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • CRAFTER Framework

          The CRAFTER SuperPrompt Framework, step by step

          Seven questions you answer before you press enter: this is how you turn a vague prompt into a reliable brief, for older and simpler AI models.

          You type a short question into your AI and get something back that looks neat. Only it is not what you meant. So you try again, and again, until you refine the result yourself. You probably recognise this. The CRAFTER framework is a fixed way to brief your AI, and it ensures this happens less often.

          With a loose prompt you sometimes just get lucky. With CRAFTER you actually get the same quality every time. You turn a vague prompt into a clear task, and you can repeat it.

          A side note beforehand: CRAFTER is a valid framework for older and simpler AI models. For ChatGPT 5.x and Claude 5.x it no longer applies. That is why you will also find a prompt for the more recent models at the bottom.

          Oct 4, 2026 · 5 min readRead
        • Superworker Model

          The Superworker Model: five levels of working with AI

          From Status Quo to Elevate: five levels that show how professionals and teams grow their relationship with AI, and what each level requires of people.

          You might have been using AI for a while, and you wonder where you actually stand. Or where your team stands. The Superworker Model maps out five levels of how professionals and teams grow their relationship with AI. Speed or efficiency say little about that. The model looks at what becomes possible at each level, and at what each level requires of the people in the system.

          Copy the prompt at the bottom of this article and put your own work on the map, task by task.

          A map of possibilities

          The five levels are called Status Quo, Optimize, Redesign, Reinvent and Elevate. I see the model as a map of possibilities. Different parts of your work can be at different levels. So you do not have to reach the highest level everywhere. I would consciously choose where you put your energy and attention.

          Oct 4, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • The Drift

          The Drift and Human Compute: what you do not outsource to AI

          Why your judgement gets weaker if you give all your thinking to AI, and why human attention remains the scarce computing power.

          You let AI do more and more of your thinking, and that goes smoothly. What happens to your own thinking in the meantime gets too little attention in the AI conversation. Perhaps you do not notice anything yourself yet.

          Copy the prompt at the bottom of this article. It helps you choose which thinking you keep for yourself.

          What is The Drift?

          Perhaps you outsource cognitive work to AI, such as research and analysis, or writing and decision support. Then something subtle begins to happen. The muscles you do not use begin to waste away. That actually happens very steadily. There is no day on which you feel the difference.

          Oct 4, 2026 · 4 min readRead
        • AI-agents

          From chatbot to workflow: building your first AI workflow

          A chatbot waits for your question, an agent completes a goal. Here is how you build your first own AI workflow this week, with a prompt to help you.

          You probably already use AI to ask questions, and perhaps you wonder what comes next. Meanwhile, a shift is happening. Many people have not noticed it yet. We are moving from asking AI questions to directing AI workflows.

          Copy the prompt at the bottom of this article, and you will map out your first workflow together with AI.

          What is the difference between AI agents and chatbots?

          A chatbot waits for your input and gives you an answer. An AI agent gets a goal, breaks it down into steps, uses tools and delivers a result. It is a bit like the difference between asking someone for directions and hiring a driver who knows the route.

          Oct 4, 2026 · 4 min readRead
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